I’ve been in interviews lately, as I look for the next phase God has for my life. These bring up the natural tension of expressing my leadership philosophy without calling attention to me; servant leadership without The Impostor.
I can’t say with any clarity that I’ve done well with this, especially with the forced-question interviews I’ve had of late.
Most of the questions, while well-intentioned, have focus on capabilities and have ignored the real need for leadership. Unexpressed are the gaps that they have for listening, empathy, and healing as the basic posture of the servant leader.
Winding back the clock, though, I wish I’d been more present with my statements, my desires for the arc of the interview, for seeing the person behind the question.
I’d like to ask better questions, to take measure of the organization’s health, of the underlying query to see if I am substantial.
I’d like to offer myself, not as the savior or the all-knowing, but as the person who can hold the tension, uncover the humanity, and give humanity back.
At the end, I’d like the person performing the interview to have been seen beneath the surface, and have been met with dignity, grace, and compassion for where they are as humans.
This is my prayer today.
Selah
Moving into these spaces, not intentionally hiding, but also not forcing; transformation happens one cupped hand at a time.